Hm.....er....Hostel...A place where one can live individually, I mean partially. Obviously there would be some restrictions from the local governing body. But one can be as free as one wants to be, without keeping up with the parents.
Though living without parents is a bit, but is a must in order to make ourselves accustomed to this new life. What do we basically think when we join an engineering college? What are our goals? And how do we want to see ourselves after the 5 years. These are some questions that may arise when we generally join a college.
Well i am also living in a hostel. Actually I hate living in hostel, because i want to be independent in my own way without any others presence and I am habituated to that only. For me living in a hostel is a sheer difficult. I came to this state after 10 years of spending in other states. So living here with all new people is a bit difficult as many have a different accent of speech and a different tone. Earlier in other states, though having people with different languages, everybody used to talk in Hindi.
In hostels, there are many white lies, night movies, birthday parties, and many other things which shouldn't be told(some of the people in the hostel even drink). But what I found was that the basic idea of our living hostel is not met( I mean the the main intention of our joining in the college as I have already told earlier) and the students live full up to their enjoyment without being watched by others. And they have complete freedom. Everybody joins the college (Engineering College) for attaining a degree. But as the days pass on, students get bored by the routine of the college life. This compels them to neglect their studies and they concentrate on useless things(which are just for enjoyment). Here i am not saying that one should restrict his/her enjoyment, but trying to tell to be in control. There's something called limit. If you cross that limit it becomes difficult to get back to the original track of studying. And this all happens mainly in hostels!!.
When it comes to my life in the hostel, I completely hate living at hostel.I think its still better to live individually without much of the so called "Friend Circle". Ya, one would become lonely, but he should not to adjust himself to the needs of the others.Do you really think one should live in the hostel??
Though living without parents is a bit, but is a must in order to make ourselves accustomed to this new life. What do we basically think when we join an engineering college? What are our goals? And how do we want to see ourselves after the 5 years. These are some questions that may arise when we generally join a college.
Well i am also living in a hostel. Actually I hate living in hostel, because i want to be independent in my own way without any others presence and I am habituated to that only. For me living in a hostel is a sheer difficult. I came to this state after 10 years of spending in other states. So living here with all new people is a bit difficult as many have a different accent of speech and a different tone. Earlier in other states, though having people with different languages, everybody used to talk in Hindi.
In hostels, there are many white lies, night movies, birthday parties, and many other things which shouldn't be told(some of the people in the hostel even drink). But what I found was that the basic idea of our living hostel is not met( I mean the the main intention of our joining in the college as I have already told earlier) and the students live full up to their enjoyment without being watched by others. And they have complete freedom. Everybody joins the college (Engineering College) for attaining a degree. But as the days pass on, students get bored by the routine of the college life. This compels them to neglect their studies and they concentrate on useless things(which are just for enjoyment). Here i am not saying that one should restrict his/her enjoyment, but trying to tell to be in control. There's something called limit. If you cross that limit it becomes difficult to get back to the original track of studying. And this all happens mainly in hostels!!.
When it comes to my life in the hostel, I completely hate living at hostel.I think its still better to live individually without much of the so called "Friend Circle". Ya, one would become lonely, but he should not to adjust himself to the needs of the others.Do you really think one should live in the hostel??